We go out together and hug and kiss. Is this considered Zina?

· 16 Rajab 1428 AH1 min readFatwa 15424English

Question

I m going to get engaged with a grl whom my parents & her parents knows very well. but as being a very close friend of her & being with her for the last one & half year we have had a very good relations together.we quite often kiss eash other passionatly & give hug & go out for shopping & parties ,this our parents knows well.

is all this is being a ZINA OR SIN as we are not yet engaged or married ???

please let me know wht can i do .

Answer

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatoh

It is Haraam (prohibited) to have any relation with a strange woman with whom you have not made Nikah. Your fear Allah and abstain from this sin immediately. Rasulullah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said "the eyes commit Zina, and the Zina of the eyes are to look at a strange woman". Therefore, you should consult with your parents and possible consider Nikah to her if you fear you would not be able to contain yourself.

And Allah knows best

Checked and Approved by:

Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Darul Iftaa

Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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