Is it mandatory to have intercourse with one's spouse?

· 8 Muharram 1434 AH1 min readFatwa 23317English

Question

is it mandatory to intercourse at the first wedding night?

Answer

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

It is not mandatory to be intimate with one’s spouse during the first wedding night.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Ismail Desai,
Student Darul Iftaa
Durban, South Africa

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

Answered by
Ismail Desai
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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