Darul Iftaa Mahmudiyyah

I have to marry a guy against my choice

· 19 Rabiʻ II 1435 AH1 min readFatwa 28362English

Question

1) Is it permissible to make dua that Allah Subhana Watala I have been forced to this nika on my engagement as You know wedding is not happen yet So please Allah Subhana Watala help me to getting marry with a boy I want and I Promised that I will not contact him until he become mahram to me I will control my Nafs In Shaa Allah.

2) Please guide me or give me Wazifa to controlling my Nafs. Wallahi iam lost now I need a guide so I kindly request that help me for The seek of Allah Subhana Watala

Answer

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

If you are experiencing difficulty in getting married to a person against your choice, you should discuss this with your parents. If they do not listen to your concerns, contact a senior person of the family and request his help.

Keep on making dua to Allah Ta’ala to guide you and assist you.

When one is faced with a difficulty, adopt all worldly means to address the problem. Wazifas and duas alone are not sufficient.

Nevertheless, recite the following dua:

Transliteration: rabbi anni magloobun fantasir

Translation: O my Rabb, indeed I am overpowered so assist me.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Fahad Abdul Wahab

Student Darul Iftaa

USA

Checked and Approved by,

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

www.Daruliftaa.net

References (Arabic / Urdu sources)

رب اني مغلوب فانتصر

Answered by
Fahad Abdul Wahab
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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