Chatting with fiancé

· 28 Dhuʻl-Hijjah 1435 AH1 min readFatwa 30938English

Question

Can I chat [phone/messenger] with my fiancee?

We will be marrying very soon.

Answer

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

It is not permissible for you to chat with your fiancé until your nikah takes place as she is still a non-mahram for you. [1]

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Ismail Dawoodjee

Student Darul Iftaa
Zambia

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

www.daruliftaa.net

References (Arabic / Urdu sources)

[1] ولا يكلم الأجنبية (رد المحتار ج6 ص396 سعيد)

فتاوى دار العلوم زكريا ج3 ص540 زمزم

آپ ک‎ے‎ مسائل ج5 ص26 مکتبۃ لدھيانوی

Answered by
Ismail Dawoodjee
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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