It is difficult for my wife to climax without oral sex and foreplay

· 11 Dhuʻl-Hijjah 1438 AH1 min readFatwa 39069English

Question

I read that it is Makrooh tahrimi to peforme Oral Sex on Wife, i would like to have some advice because it is difficulte for me that my wife reaches climax without it, even with foreplay do have advice for me

Answer

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

We do not understand what you mean by … it is difficult for me that my wife …

Nevertheless, explain to your wife the prohibition of the act in reference and discuss with her the difficulty experienced and explore ways with her to overcome the difficulty.

And Allah Ta‘āla Knows Best

Mehrazur Rahman

Student Darul Iftaa

Brooklyn, NY, USA

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

Answered by
Mehrazur Rahman
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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