I am struggling with waswasa, what happens if I utter something that conflicts with the teachings of shariah?
Question
Salam. I have been experiencing waswasa about different things for a long time. Recently I have started having waswasa that certain statements I am making are shirk/Kufr statements. I realise that I should simply ignore these thoughts. If I tell my partner that I don’t believe wearing pants above the ankles for women is a big deal although I know it is wrong, does that constitute kufr/shirk? Jazakallah
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
You mention that you know you should be ignoring your waswasa. This is correct. You should ignore all waswasas. The statement you made to your wife will not constitute kufr.[1] As you already know, it is impermissible for a woman to expose the area above her ankles to ghair mahram men.[2] [3] [4]
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Nadeem Moulana
Student Darul Iftaa
Kentucky, USA
Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.
References (Arabic / Urdu sources)
[1] الفتاوى الهندية (2/ 283)
إذَا كَانَ فِي الْمَسْأَلَةِ وُجُوهٌ تُوجِبُ الْكُفْرَ، وَوَجْهٌ وَاحِدٌ يَمْنَعُ، فَعَلَى الْمُفْتِي أَنْ يَمِيلَ إلَى ذَلِكَ الْوَجْهِ كَذَا فِي الْخُلَاصَةِ فِي الْبَزَّازِيَّةِ
[2] الأصل للشيباني ط قطر (2/ 235)
وأما المرأة الحرة التي لا نكاح بينه وبينها ولا حرمة ممن يحل له نكاحها فليس ينبغي له أن ينظر إلى شئ منها مكشوفاً إلا الوجه والكف.
[3] کتاب النوازل (15/388)
عورت کے لۓ آجنبی اور نا محرم مردوں کے سامنے چہرہ، ہتیلیاں اور دونوں قدموں کے علاوہ پورے بدن کو چھپانا فرض ہے- اور اگر فتنہ کا اندیشہ ہو جیسا کہ آج کل واقع ہے، تو چہرہ کا چھپانا بھی واجب ہے
[4] فتاوی محمودیہ(19/169)
پردہ اسلام میں ضروری چیز ہے، قرآن کریم اور حدیث شریف سے ثابت ہے
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- Nadeem Moulana
- Checked & approved by
- Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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