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My father wants me to marry my first cousin. However, I do not wish to marry her. Can I be forced into this marriage?

· 23 Jumada II 1421 AH1 min readFatwa 826English

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My father wants me to marry my first cousin. However, I do not wish to marry her. Can I be forced into this marriage?

Answer

According to Shari'ah, an adult (boy and girl) reserve the right to marry a partner of his/her choice. However, due to marriage being a major step in one's life, it is advisable to make Mashwara (consult) with your seniors as well as make Istikhaara (seek divine guidance). Somewhere on this site, search 'Istikhaara' (without quotes).

You should also consider the advise of your parents as their advise is motivated by their love and concern for you.

And Allah Taãla Knows Best.

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Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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