What does the Quar'an say about having a Girl Friend? Is Arranged marrige the only way to get married?
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What does the Quar'an say about having a Girl Friend? Is Arranged marrige the only way to get married?
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Respected Brother-in-Islam
Assalaamu Álaykum Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakaatuhu
Every type of premarital relationship, even if it excludes sexual relationship is prohibited.
And Allah Taãla Knows Best.
Was salaam
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
FATWA DEPT.
We do not understand what you mean by arranged marriage.
However, according to Shari?ah, every adult (matured) male and female have an independent right to choose their marriage partners. If by ?arranged marriage? you mean that the parents have arranged the marriage of their son/daughter without their consent as is the custom in some places, then it is incorrect. If the child is not happy with the choice of their parents, they may decline and choose a partner of their choice. However, since marriage is a big step in one?s life, children should consult with their parents and consider their advises as their advises are generally motivated by their love for their child.
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- Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Where scholars differ, it’s safer to take the more cautious view.
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