Being attracted to males

· 17 Dhuʻl-Qiʻdah 1436 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

I am eighteen years old. Physically I am a proper male but mentally and emotionally I never feel like males. I am always attracted towards males and I have interest in them. I think that I am a female in male appearance. Please sir help me to get rid of this and kindly tell me any "Tasbih". This problem is since my childhood but then I didn't know about it?

Answer

It is advisable that you see an experienced shaikh living near you. For the time being take care of your eyes. Don't look at any person that will create lust, and think of death in the mornings and evenings and the fact that it can strike at any time.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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