Boy reading his sister's chat with his fiancée

· 23 Jumada I 1437 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

A girl is engaged and she chats with her sister in-law via whatsapp. Is it allowed for the girl's fiance to see the chat if the girl has messaged something related to her fiance? Like the girl has a few Deeni demands from her future husband so she messages the demands to her sister in-law. So can the fiance read the messages directly from his sister's phone?

Answer

He should not be seeing it.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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