Wife refusing to have intercourse

4 Feb 2017 · 7 Jumada I 1438 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

Please advise. My wife does not want to have intercourse with me. I find my self wanting to stimulate myself using her shoe, can I do this? I am attracted to her feet. She won't even come close to me or satisfy me in any way. Please help I don't want to end the marriage.

Answer

Stimulate yourself using her. Don't use her shoe.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Q: My wife does not want me to use her but use my hand or by a sex doll.

A: Don't listen to her. Do what you need to do.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

Answered by: Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

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