What is the importance of a husband?

Published as Obeying the husband

· 7 Shaʻban 1438 AH1 min readEnglish

Question

What is the importance of a husband? How shall he be treated? I'm reluctant to obey him in every matter. I want to correct myself but I'm stubborn and a pampered wife. I want to rectify my amaal.

Answer

The wife should obey her husband in all matters that do not contravene the laws of Shari'ah. She should fulfil his rights and serve him to the best of her ability. When speaking to him, she should adopt a respectable approach. For your own good, you need to pamper your husband.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Zakaria Makada
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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