Would getting a legal divorce mean we're divorced according to Shariah automatically?

Published as Getting married in a COP contract

· 6 Jumada I 1443 AH2 min readEnglish

Question

My husband and I have been married for 35 years. For years now things haven't been good between us. He had several extramarital affairs and treats me disrepectfully. We kept on trying but it's not working. I keep worrying what will happen if I pass away. I have 4 adult children, 2 of whom live at home and are financially dependant on us.

Previously when I made enquiries I was told that in the case of divorce, my husband would get half of my pension. I worked for 27 years and put all my money in helping him provide for our family. Alhamdulillah, we're married in CoP. For me the worry is what would happen to my children as my son is 32 and has a mental health diagnosis and my daughter is unmarried, pregnant & still studying. Giving away half of my pension would be a knock financially.

I would like to have our civil marriage dissolved but remain married Islamically, at least until I feel I can manage that as well. I know I should have divorced him years ago but I kept hoping he would mend his ways but unfortunately things have become worse over time. I would want him to get some money from my pension so he can at least set himself up with a place to stay but definitely not 50%. He's previously said we should keep the house. He doesn't have a pension benefit. Would getting a legal divorce mean we're divorced according to Shariah automatically? We are South African and follow the Hanafi madhab.

Answer

The COP nikaah contract is not recognized in Shariah as it opposes the laws of Shariah.

In Shariah each spouse is the sole owner of his wealth and property. In the case of divorce, half the wealth of any spouse cannot be taken by the other. This is regarded as oppression and distortion and hence haraam.

If any spouse takes the wealth of the other in this haraam and unjust manner, he/she will be greatly sinful.

For further details, refer to http://muftionline.co.za/node/1243

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

Answered by
Mufti Zakaria Makada
Checked & approved by
Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)
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