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Children & Upbringing

1,131 fatawa from 8 South African Darul Iftas on Children & Upbringing, part of Family, Women & Children. Newest first; every fatwa links to the page where its Darul Ifta published it.

Subtopics are grouped from each Darul Ifta’s own categories and the fatwa titles, so the count is approximate.

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Mufti Online531Ask Imaam380Jamiat KZN127Ibn Masood46Azaadville21MJC13Camperdown10MUBZ3

Children & Upbringing fatawa — page 1 of 29

  1. Jamiat KZN29 Oct 2026

    Is it permissible to sell or use hair extensions or wigs

    Is it permissible to sell or use hair extensions or wigs to cover one’s loss of hair?

    Mufti Muhammed Hamza Farooqui
  2. Mufti Online21 Oct 2026

    Teaching a child with a dominant left hand to eat with the right hand

    My daughter seems to be dominant in her left hand. I never thought there is anything wrong with this but comments from a few family members have…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  3. Mufti Online20 Sep 2026

    Child being fed with porridge made from breast milk

    Porridge was made from breast milk of a certain woman and another child (under 2 yrs) happened to eat that same porridge. The second baby who the…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  4. Mufti Online19 Sep 2026

    Waking the small baby from his nap

    My baby is almost a year old. He changed his nap times and now naps for the second time around 5 or 6pm. However, if it's getting close to 7pm, I…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  5. Ibn Masood16 Sep 2026

    Items Purchased For One’s Child

    My daughter left home over a year ago to pursue a Haraam relationship with her stepfather. She subsequently took all her possessions with her. I…

    Mufti Abdul Kader Fazlani
  6. Mufti Online9 Sep 2026

    Using Sassa government grant amounts received on one's children

    I earn a decent amount of salary to take care of all the basic necessities of myself, my wife and 3 kids. At the end of the month I don't have any…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  7. Camperdown7 Sep 2026

    Can the Welfare of Existing Children and the Mother’s Capacity to Care Constitute a Valid Excuse for Abortion Before 120 Days?

    Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. We follow the Hanafi madhhab and urgently need a case-specific ruling regarding abortion. Conception…

    Baba Abu Bakr
  8. Ibn Masood17 Aug 2026

    Hijrah For The Purpose Of Deeni Upbringing

    I am mother of 5 children aged between 19 and 5 years old. We live in the USA. We have been considering moving to another country with a strong…

    Mufti Abdul Kader Fazlani
  9. Camperdown24 Jul 2026

    Who Inherits When a Woman Passes Away Without Parents, Husband, Children or Siblings?

    A woman passed away not having any close relative alive. She outlived her husband, brother, parents and did not have any children. The closest…

    Abdour-Rahmaan Lim Voon Heek
  10. Jamiat KZN13 Jul 2026

    Committing suicide as an expiation for Zina

    I would wish to know if I committed Zina. The punishment for Zina is death by stoning or the like. Could I inflict the punishment on myself to win…

    Mufti Muhammed Hamza Farooqui
  11. MJC9 Jul 2026

    Preventing Visitation of Grandparents

    Assuming that by “biological father” you are referring to an Islamic father, meaning that the child was conceived within a marriage, please be…

    Mufti Abdurragmaan Khan
  12. Jamiat KZN29 Jun 2026

    Inheritance of predeceased children

    In the event of a deceased parent’s estate, must any predeceased children also be included in the inheritance? Does the right of the predeceased…

    Mufti Muhammed Hamza Farooqui
  13. Camperdown14 Jun 2026

    Giving Sadaqah from a Non-Baligh’s Wealth

    السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Is it permissible for parents to give Sadaqah from a non-baligh childs money?

    Baba Abu Bakr
  14. Camperdown3 Jun 2026

    Naming a Child Sufyaan

    Asalamualaykum wrwb Can a person name their son Sufyaan? People are telling us that he was the last Sahabi ra to convert, and his granson was Yazid,…

    Baba Abu Bakr
  15. Ibn Masood30 May 2026

    Separating Children’s Beds

    Considering the following Hadith of Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihi Wasallam, “Command your children to perform Salaah when they are seven years old,…

    Mufti Umar Farooq Rangila
  16. Camperdown13 May 2026

    Fear of Mispronunciation of a Child’s Name

    There’s a couple that can’t decide between the names E’saa and Adam . They fear people won’t pronounce the ع properly in E’saa because the meaning…

    Baba Abu Bakr
  17. Camperdown8 May 2026

    Using Models/ Props to Teach Children Practical Hajj

    Can students learn how to perform hajj practically by using a big box to explain the tawaaf etc. They will have to walk around the box and basically…

    Azhar Mownah
  18. Mufti Online7 May 2026

    Upholding the laws of Shariah in a non-Muslim country

    I need clarification on a matter. My wife and I have been having marital problems for some time and we have 2 sons ages 6 and 10. First question, we…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  19. Mufti Online6 May 2026

    Cellphone in the hands of children and adults

    What age is best for a parent to give their child a phone?

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  20. Mufti Online2 May 2026

    Custody of a 14 year old girl after divorce

    If a woman is divorced and has 2 children; 1 girl (14 years) and 1 boy (25 years). If she gets married again, should the daughter stay with her son…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  21. Mufti Online2 May 2026

    Disciplining someone else's child in the masjid

    If another persons child comes to the musjid and is playing or makes noise can I hit him? If the child is between 7 and 12.

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  22. Mufti Online30 Apr 2026

    Children standing in the adults' saffs if they are misbehaving

    Is it correct for a person to keep his sons behind him in the masjid - away from other children as these children are causing a disturbance in the…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  23. Mufti Online29 Apr 2026

    Disciplining one's child with love and compassion

    Is it better to refrain from hitting a child when they do something wrong?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  24. Azaadville24 Apr 2026

    Distribution Of Assets To Children In A Person’s Lifetime

    Does a person have to distribute his assets equally amongst all his children if he gives it during his lifetime or can he give more to his sons and…

  25. Mufti Online12 Apr 2026

    Responsibility of children to take care of their mother

    We are 4 children (2 daughters and 2 sons). My father passed away a few months ago. Who is responsible for taking care of and for the financial…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  26. Camperdown7 Feb 2026

    What is the consequence of the lack of a father figure in the life of a male child?

    What is the consequences of the lack of a father figure in the life of a male child. Is it true that the father bears a greater responsibility in…

    Baba Abu Bakr
  27. Mufti Online20 Jan 2026

    Woman staying at home for 40 days after childbirth

    Is it an Islamic tradition for a woman to stay in the house for full 40 days after giving birth or is it just an old tradition?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  28. Mufti Online29 Dec 2025

    Taking permission from the ex-husband when taking the children to different places

    I am a divorced woman with two daughters under the age of 9. I live with my parents and travel with them. Is it necessary to seek permission from my…

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  29. Mufti Online18 Dec 2025

    Where children should stand in the musjid

    1. Where should children stand in the saff, just one saff behind the men, or two, or very far back? 2. If the 9 yr old child stands one saff behind…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  30. Mufti Online20 Nov 2025

    Looking after one's child in the musjid

    1. What age is it suitable to start introducing a boy to the masjid, by taking him now and again? 2. What age is it suitable to regularly bring a…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  31. Mufti Online20 Nov 2025

    Going for swimming lessons to pools with no segregation between men and ladies

    What do our Ulama say about sending kids or youth or adults to swimming pools or gyms where there are mixed ladies and men with no segregation and…

    Mufti Ebrahim Salejee
  32. Mufti Online19 Nov 2025

    Attending one's children's awards day in a church

    My children's awards day will be held in a church. Will it be permissible to attend?

    Mufti Zakaria Makada
  33. Ask Imaam25 Oct 2025

    Is it okay if my child watches educational cartoons to aid their mental development?

    Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakathu, Mufti Sahab. My question is about what would be the best way to teach children. I have read that…

    Ibn Aḥsan
  34. Ask Imaam22 Oct 2025

    As a revert, with children and being completely dependent on the evil non-Muslim father of my children, what should I do?

    I am a very new convert. I`m a mother of 4, and still living with their non-Muslim father....what am I to do?!?! I have no job or no car, and now…

    Hanif Yusuf Patel
  35. Jamiat KZN21 Oct 2025

    Time-Frame for removing Pubic hairs

    How often should a woman trim the hair under her arms and in the pubic area? Is it every 40 days or after each menstruation when Fardh ghusl is…

    Mufti Muhammed Hamza Farooqui
  36. Jamiat KZN14 Oct 2025

    The implications of breastfeeding

    If my sister’s 1-month-old daughter drank a few drops of my breast milk, would that be sufficient for her to be considered my milk daughter (radaa’i…

    Mufti Muhammed Hamza Farooqui
  37. Ibn Masood4 Oct 2025

    Advising One’s Child

    Thirteen years ago, my eldest son had a stillborn child, whom we named ‘Muhammad’. Two years later, my younger son had twins, one of whom we named…

    Mufti Abdul Kader Fazlani
  38. Azaadville29 Sep 2025

    Breastfeeding An Adopted Child (Revised)

    When a baby girl is adopted and breastfed by the adoptive mother, do the brothers of the adoptive father (married to the mother) become the baby…

  39. MJC28 Sep 2025

    Fathers Duty Towards his Unmarried Daughter

    With regards to your query, please be informed of the following: 1. A father is financially responsible for the basic needs of his poor children who…

    Mufti Abdurragmaan Khan
  40. Ask Imaam24 Sep 2025

    How do we lawfully entertain ourselves as teenagers?

    Assalamu alaykum ww respected Mufti sb. I had this question if you could please help me out. A young teenage Muslim asks how do we lawfully…

    Mahmood Suliman

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