Intercourse during menses
Question
During haiz if wife insist to have sex using condom when there is very little or almost no bleeding during the three days wait period of haiz.
Is it permissible in islam or not? There is no forcing or desire shown from husband for sex. It is only wife expectation.
Please guide us in light of islam's teaching.
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Sexual intercourse during menses is haram even if one uses condom[1].
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Immad Bin Arshad
Student Darul Iftaa
California, USA
Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.
www.daruliftaa.net
References (Arabic / Urdu sources)
[1] الاختيار لتعليل المختار (1/ 28)
(وَيَحْرُمُ وَطْؤُهَا) لِقَوْلِهِ تَعَالَى: {وَلا تَقْرَبُوهُنَّ حَتَّى يَطْهُرْنَ} [البقرة: 222] وَالنَّهْيُ لِلتَّحْرِيمِ، وَإِنْ وَطِئَهَا فِي الْحَيْضِ إِنْ كَانَا طَائِعَيْنِ أَثِمَا، وَيَكْفِيهِمَا الِاسْتِغْفَارُ وَالتَّوْبَةُ، لِقَوْلِ الصِّدِّيقِ - رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ - لِمَنْ سَأَلَهُ عَنْ ذَلِكَ: اسْتَغْفِرِ اللَّهَ وَلَا تَعُدْ. وَإِنْ كَانَ أَحَدُهُمَا طَائِعًا وَالْآخَرُ مُكْرَهًا أَثِمَ الطَّائِعُ وَحْدَهُ. قَالَ فِي الْفَتَاوَى: وَهَذَا فِي الْحُكْمِ، وَيُسْتَحَبُّ أَنْ يُتَصَدَّقَ بِدِينَارٍ أَوْ نِصْفِ دِينَارٍ. قِيلَ: مَعْنَاهُ إِنْ كَانَ فِي أَوَّلِ الْحَيْضِ فَدِينَارٌ، وَفِي آخِرِهِ نِصْفُهُ. وَقِيلَ: إِنْ كَانَ الدَّمُ أَسْوَدَ فَدِينَارٌ، وَإِنْ كَانَ أَصْفَرَ فَنِصْفُهُ، وَبِجَمِيعِ ذَلِكَ وَرَدَ الْحَدِيثُ.
(وَيَكْفُرُ مُسْتَحِلُّهُ) لِأَنَّ حُرْمَتَهُ ثَبَتَتْ بِالْكِتَابِ وَالْإِجْمَاعِ
- Answered by
- Immad Bin Arshad
- Checked & approved by
- Mufti Ebrahim Desai
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