Darul Iftaa Mahmudiyyah

My marraige is annuled.my iddat is over,and still love my husband.how do i get over this.

· 20 Shawwal 1423 AH1 min readFatwa 7507English

Question

I was seperated form my husband a few months ago,I took my 2 children and moved out as he lifted his hands for me and emotionaly abused me.I thought he wouyld move with us,but he didnt.eventually the MJC had granted me fasagh,my iddat is now finished and I am having a very difficult time getting over my husband.I love him and miss him so much,please Imaam,what should I do.He has never contacted me regarding his feelings for me,yet I have cried so many times for him.my children is 7yrs and 3yrs.He did not nafaqah us.

Answer

If you wish to reconcile with your ex-husband, we advise you get in touch with him directly or through a reliable source and communicate your feelings to him.

If both of you decide to reconcile, and he did not pronounce at least two divorces to you previously, then you may remarry.

and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

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